Why do so many women enjoy being spanked? And not just light swats either, alot of them really like their seats to be on fire.
What is it about being spanked that appeals to so many women? |
I don't know, but judging by my reading on the internet, there are quite a lot of men who enjoy being spanked too. Whether there are more women than men who crave this I could not say.
In my own case, it is as much about wanting to feel my husband's dominance/control/authority etc as it is about the actual spanking, the fact of him being in charge is at least as important to me as the actual spanking. But for some women it is purely the feeling of being spanked that is pleasurable to them. |
Do most women liked to be spanked and have their hair pulled when having wild steamy passionate sex? On average, Do you thing that most women liked to be spanked and have their hair pulled when having wild steamy passionate sex? |
I have never seen any statistics but I think spanking is a minority thing.
But a lot more than many think:)))))
Pulling hair??? have not heard of that one before.
But if you both like it - Enjoy!! |
Do women enjoy being spanked by their boyfriends/husbands? Does being spanked for being naughty turn women on?
What form of spanking is the best? Over the knee and hard until the buttocks are red? Open hand or with a belt or a paddle? I need some suggestions to spice up my love life. |
Yes, some women are turned on by being spanked, some more than others.
Well, for an erotic spanking, which I presume is what you're asking about, one of (yes, there are many) the best methods is firm and slow swats to the sitspot (the area that includes the lower bottom and where cheeks meet the thighs, the part that touches the chair when you sit down). This region shares many nerves and blood vessels with the genitalia, so repeated impact to this area will suffuse both with heat and sensation, leading to arousal.
There are, of course, several tricks to use. I have one that I'm particularly fond of, which has given a few young ladies orgasms while being spanked over my knee. I'm not going to share it here, though.
Some girls prefer the hand, while others are quite fond of leather or wood. The main difference is if they like thuddy or stingy swats. How hard you can hit is also variable. Ignore the previous assertion that only "mild or symbolic" swats are permitted. Some girls like it good and hard. For instance, I have several pictures on my spanking blog of my beloved Cookie's bruised bottom after playtime.
Plus, not all enjoyment has to be of the erotic kind. Some simply like to get playful spankings, without any sexuality involved. Others like to have their limits pushed to experience an endorphine release, or to relieve physical or mental stress that they're under. Some even don't "enjoy" spanking, per se, but seek out spanking partners for the purpose of behavioral modification. In other words, they look for spankings for discipline and punishment, not pleasure. While they may feel that they need to be spanked, they don't "want" or "desire" the ones that they ultimately get. I actually have an essay on my spanking blog that details several different qualities that a spanking may have, and erotic is only one of the six that I describe. |
Do Asian women like or want to be spanked by their Husbands or Boyfriends? The last two women I dated and the my wife, all Asian, enjoyed when I gave them a little spanking (both erotic while making love, and a real spanking as a reprimand/punishment). So we are kind of wondering, if you are an asian women, do you enjoy your partner giving you a little slap on the rear during sex, and/or putting you across his knee for a real spanking? How common is it? Thanks for your answers and input in advance. |
| I think women of any race would like that. |
Is it true that women were spanked by their husbands? I heard that this was common around the 50s and earlier. Is this true? |
| Naughty, naughty. I couldn't say, I wasn't around in the 50s, but I guess some kinky sh!t was going on under those poodle skirts. |
Do women enjoy being spanked as part of an overall erotic experience? Any specific preferences in that regard? Any good stories to tell? Finally, erotic pleasure aside, what exactly (emotionally) does a good spanking do for a naughty girl? |
| I personally never have, but I have been thinking about it quite a bit lately. I need someone to help me out with that, and I've been bad - would you? Spank me, I mean? I am ssssooooo bad. |
Why do women like getting spanked more then men? O-o I thought it might have been equal, but I've been told different. |
Many women, in the bedroom, want to feel fragile/submissive in the arms of a powerful guy that gives them his undivided attention. Spanking is just one manifestation of that, but a very direct way of accomplishing it.
It can also have something to do with father issues, especially when the girl is into ageplay as well, but that's not always the case.
Plenty of guys are into it as well, but society tells men they can't be fragile. |
Is it weird to enjoy being spanked? Are there guys out there that like spanking women? It really turns me on. I know it's a fetish but I feel strange that I crave it. I met a guy online that wants to meet and spank me but is that a good idea? It's not like I want just a playful slap on the behind but a really hard spanking. I do have a bf but I know that he really isn't into doing it. He'll spank me a bit during sex but it's not the same. |
| When the sex turns rougher, I find mild spanking to be a huge turn on myself. |